tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4187131513409862167.post3294854414266940162..comments2024-03-17T02:14:31.440-07:00Comments on The day flew by so fast it was a blur...: CommunicationBlur Tinghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07792543153416871887noreply@blogger.comBlogger17125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4187131513409862167.post-64631688128002482842009-03-08T10:07:00.000-07:002009-03-08T10:07:00.000-07:00Yeah, I've just heard from a friend about this inc...Yeah, I've just heard from a friend about this incident. It's crazy indeed. And I totally agree with you about kids...after all, parents are parents who should guide them.Amelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16792921371964029469noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4187131513409862167.post-43557148816076838842009-03-07T01:09:00.000-08:002009-03-07T01:09:00.000-08:00Yah, best is to know the real truth. But still, th...Yah, best is to know the real truth. But still, the message about open communication between parents and kids remains loud and clear. I am also trying to work hard on that because I am also human and sometimes I forget.Blur Tinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07792543153416871887noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4187131513409862167.post-15043386010791220632009-03-07T00:31:00.000-08:002009-03-07T00:31:00.000-08:00Apologies fr extending this conversation but since...Apologies fr extending this conversation but since u commented on the poor kid and so did I, I think it's only fair to alert you that friends of the deceased have complained abt the inferences generally drawn..<BR/><BR/>here is the link: http://wayangparty.com/?p=6033<BR/><BR/>Feel free to delete this post if u think it doesn't add to the "conversation". <BR/><BR/>Have a good week-end!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4187131513409862167.post-43537992727263476562009-03-06T16:17:00.000-08:002009-03-06T16:17:00.000-08:00Oh what happened to the undergraduate is really sa...Oh what happened to the undergraduate is really sad.The Real Mother Henhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13226727195920798035noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4187131513409862167.post-80601132523538788102009-03-06T15:32:00.000-08:002009-03-06T15:32:00.000-08:00heh heh, that's how it always starts.heh heh, that's how it always starts.Blur Tinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07792543153416871887noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4187131513409862167.post-58009637891651753872009-03-06T08:03:00.000-08:002009-03-06T08:03:00.000-08:00Blur ting, the day Claire is born, I told her that...Blur ting, the day Claire is born, I told her that i want her to grow up happy & healthy... But i m just afraid that along the way, I might impose my unrequited hopes & expectations on her!<BR/><BR/>Will keep ur advice in mind! :)k@Ye_https://www.blogger.com/profile/14360263111924587234noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4187131513409862167.post-75746110211722819132009-03-06T06:28:00.000-08:002009-03-06T06:28:00.000-08:00Auntielucia - They may have received the letters a...Auntielucia - They may have received the letters and spoken to the son but they're there and he's here... he could make them believe everything's fine and keep his problems all to himself. Poor thing.Blur Tinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07792543153416871887noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4187131513409862167.post-59939688080908163392009-03-06T03:01:00.000-08:002009-03-06T03:01:00.000-08:00Hi Blur, May I make one correction? NTU said the 3...Hi Blur, May I make one correction? NTU said the 3 letters of warning were copied to the parents in Indonesia. Perhaps they couldn't read English or the letters never got to them. The real tragedy is that this kid didn't have family support when he needed it. Of cos most can survive without family support but this one couldn;t and didn't.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4187131513409862167.post-30451293226982755292009-03-06T01:53:00.000-08:002009-03-06T01:53:00.000-08:00CKL - You have done a great job. I understand that...CKL - You have done a great job. I understand that feeling too :-))Blur Tinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07792543153416871887noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4187131513409862167.post-48512275178150078292009-03-06T01:52:00.000-08:002009-03-06T01:52:00.000-08:00Nick - I sometimes fail to communicate properly wi...Nick - I sometimes fail to communicate properly with someone and let the bitterness fester inside me but once I start talking, the problem just goes away.Blur Tinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07792543153416871887noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4187131513409862167.post-76038994908738328212009-03-06T01:51:00.000-08:002009-03-06T01:51:00.000-08:00Kaye - As long as you are able to keep check as yo...Kaye - As long as you are able to keep check as you go along, she will be fine. Just ask yourself would you be happy if you were in her position, then you would know the answer.Blur Tinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07792543153416871887noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4187131513409862167.post-38885901700101167762009-03-06T01:50:00.000-08:002009-03-06T01:50:00.000-08:00Fry - Yah, I must agree you all have done your par...Fry - Yah, I must agree you all have done your parents proud! <BR/><BR/>Many parents get carried away with their expectations forgetting to put themselves in the kid's shoes.<BR/><BR/>Then again, it also depends alot on the nature and personality of the parents lah.Blur Tinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07792543153416871887noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4187131513409862167.post-59292587205083984512009-03-06T00:25:00.000-08:002009-03-06T00:25:00.000-08:00Totally with you on this one! When I read on my da...Totally with you on this one! When I read on my daughter's blog: "My mum is my best friend..." I can't stop smiling to myself :-)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4187131513409862167.post-8645046908533233572009-03-06T00:13:00.000-08:002009-03-06T00:13:00.000-08:00I have to agree. Communication is the key factor t...I have to agree. Communication is the key factor to everything. If only people communicated more, the world would have a lot less problems ...Nick Phillips (15/03/1967 - 04/11/2022)https://www.blogger.com/profile/01043552434776358684noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4187131513409862167.post-86356874580507750342009-03-05T22:06:00.000-08:002009-03-05T22:06:00.000-08:00k@ye_,u boh-bian, u gotta do it. your claire too t...k@ye_,<BR/><BR/>u boh-bian, u gotta do it. your claire too tok-gong liao! ngiak ngiak ngiak.<BR/><BR/>tell me next time she siong another kid, ok! i cant wait for the day she smacks some bully! kekeke.....<BR/><BR/>** me folks never taught us to stand up against bullies, so me siblings all learnt the hard way. =(((Fresh Fry aka 福星https://www.blogger.com/profile/08676717356912288873noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4187131513409862167.post-1138438442927010142009-03-05T21:48:00.000-08:002009-03-05T21:48:00.000-08:00Me hope i can do the same with Claire too like wha...Me hope i can do the same with Claire too like what you do with ur boys!k@Ye_https://www.blogger.com/profile/14360263111924587234noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4187131513409862167.post-61951860067657591312009-03-05T20:59:00.000-08:002009-03-05T20:59:00.000-08:00totally agree with you on relationship with kids. ...totally agree with you on relationship with kids. however i've different views about other parents.<BR/><BR/>many pushed the kid too far to forget that losing a child is worse than losing a job/scholarship/making them lose their face (in whatever way) etc etc. and in the end, the Ultimate happened and then they cry. my cousin, now the mother of 3 is so envious of my folks of having a doctor + scientist kids tat she kept pushing her kids to excel in studies. now 1 of her kid just completely gives up studying and she increased her storms. i asked her, wat if she goes suicide?<BR/><BR/>she paused, mulled for a moment, said, "i'll take note in future," and guess wat? she was back to her normal self 2 weeks down.<BR/><BR/>our dear human race. ha. ha. ha.Fresh Fry aka 福星https://www.blogger.com/profile/08676717356912288873noreply@blogger.com