tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4187131513409862167.post1433658618429455119..comments2024-03-17T02:14:31.440-07:00Comments on The day flew by so fast it was a blur...: Size mattersBlur Tinghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07792543153416871887noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4187131513409862167.post-42092072602661143712007-10-23T12:57:00.000-07:002007-10-23T12:57:00.000-07:00I guess Asia being touted as producing the world's...I guess Asia being touted as producing the world's most petite women, have to "keep up" with that image, thus girls like us (I am 1.68m/size 12-14) are considered "flawed Asian products". <BR/><BR/>Especially here in mish-mash SG, when we get fed on a diet of Asian AND Western cuisine (not to mention the myriad of other exotic foreign flavours), we can't really all just develop like "Asians", can we?<BR/><BR/>The society here is just plain shallow, thus the emphasis on big girls being labeled as "fat girls". If it were not as superficial, why the need for condos, cars and other flashy belongings?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4187131513409862167.post-58338286253881524522007-10-22T19:40:00.000-07:002007-10-22T19:40:00.000-07:00Hear hear! I totally feel you as I am also tall (1...Hear hear! I totally feel you as I am also tall (1.68m) and big (size 12) so am considered fat by Asian standards.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4187131513409862167.post-14331644868999208812007-10-21T04:17:00.000-07:002007-10-21T04:17:00.000-07:00When in asia i am tall and big. when back home, i ...When in asia i am tall and big. when back home, i am just a regular dude. I like it.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4187131513409862167.post-37856777553305775332007-10-21T01:50:00.000-07:002007-10-21T01:50:00.000-07:00Hi Ting! Came from Mooi`s blog. I think you`re pre...Hi Ting! Came from Mooi`s blog. I think you`re pretty; very sunshiny and cheery! <BR/><BR/>I can`t wear lots of smaller sized clothing thanks to my broad, man-like, swimmer-type shoulders no matter how thin I get. <BR/><BR/>My mom thinks I`m fat while my dad thinks I`m too thin. We can`t please everybody so we might as well just eat and do whatever we want so long as we look good to ourselves.YUhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09851990380681244840noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4187131513409862167.post-87736043663980538272007-10-20T12:35:00.000-07:002007-10-20T12:35:00.000-07:00Its so interesting that being very thin is as much...Its so interesting that being very thin is as much of an obsession half a world away as it is in the U.S. It is a sad commentary on the pervasive values being conveyed to young girls. I don't see an end, though. It really is a shame.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4187131513409862167.post-2373819532871866962007-10-17T07:42:00.000-07:002007-10-17T07:42:00.000-07:00Hi, Blur,I knew you'd be able to relate to the thi...Hi, Blur,<BR/><BR/>I knew you'd be able to relate to the things I mentioned in that specific post he he he...glad you enjoyed reading it! ;-DAmelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16792921371964029469noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4187131513409862167.post-9866535053589893022007-10-16T18:23:00.000-07:002007-10-16T18:23:00.000-07:00You're right Edsperience. I doubt many men would a...You're right Edsperience. I doubt many men would appreciate a skinny body but try convincing the women!!<BR/><BR/>JY - you know what? You don't have to be tall, it's all about proportion. In the modeling world, the proportionate models can be really tiny cos it won't show in the photos. You look so tall and slim in your photos you know. See, it's all about proportion.<BR/><BR/>Amel. I read your blog and you're really hit the right note in that blog! I can totally relate to those things you said!<BR/><BR/><BR/>World - Sad, but true. It's not going to be easy to change that perception.<BR/><BR/>Yah, Mooiness, guys don't really care about how much a woman weighs as long as she's well groomed and presentable, and have tons of confidence right? That's waht they always say and I choose to believe them :-)Blur Tinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07792543153416871887noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4187131513409862167.post-71715813458825278962007-10-16T06:01:00.000-07:002007-10-16T06:01:00.000-07:00In my experience, there's an obsession with the 50...In my experience, there's an obsession with the 50kg mark amongst Asian girls. And usually these girls do not look anywhere near what we'd consider fat.<BR/><BR/>You are right about the media pressure though - a woman's willpower and sense of self-worth must be damn strong to withstand the constant barrage of slimming advertisements.mooinesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17528203441804814127noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4187131513409862167.post-41975783672851593222007-10-16T05:14:00.000-07:002007-10-16T05:14:00.000-07:00Interesting topic. I think it's pretty common for ...Interesting topic. I think it's pretty common for us girls to wish we were taller or slimmer, I know I do sometimes. Then again, there are girls out there who wish they were smaller or bigger. Are we ever satisfied?!<BR/>But what's really sad is that young girls can be so impressionable, and they see these supermodels and slimming advertisements and are literally starving themselves to death.The World According To Mehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06877147634501360129noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4187131513409862167.post-78823086737612669992007-10-16T03:59:00.000-07:002007-10-16T03:59:00.000-07:00Hi, Blur!I know EXACTLY what you mean. A close fri...Hi, Blur!<BR/><BR/>I know EXACTLY what you mean. A close friend of mine says that weight problem is the same to women as ego to men he he he...<BR/><BR/>Here's something I wrote before we got to know each other about pressures in Asia:<BR/><BR/><A HREF="http://ailema4ever.blogspot.com/2007/08/pressures.html" REL="nofollow">Pressures</A>Amelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16792921371964029469noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4187131513409862167.post-49775693413375778252007-10-16T03:55:00.000-07:002007-10-16T03:55:00.000-07:00aaawww maaannn...i'd LUV to be at least 5'5"...I n...aaawww maaannn...i'd LUV to be at least 5'5"...I not even close... *sigh*Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4187131513409862167.post-44081410999881871022007-10-15T22:16:00.000-07:002007-10-15T22:16:00.000-07:00A newspaper filled with superficial ads indicates ...A newspaper filled with superficial ads indicates the existence of an intellectually-numbed population that is appealed to by the obvious. Don't bother about it. It takes Passion to appreciate the fuller women as opposed to those teetering on the verge of anorexia. <BR/><BR/>An appreciation of the latter can indicate the 'desire to possess' or 'control' arising from an inferiority complex. Those who love to 'feel' the most in life, love to 'feel more', be it in spice or size.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com