All's well that ends well

When that time of the year rolls around, mothers are suddenly thrust into the limelight. In the Sunday papers, writers talk about their relationship with the mothers. It’s not unusual to read about them coming to terms with their mothers after a tumultuous relationship with them while growing up.

Why do mothers always get the shorter end of the stick? Is it because mothers take care of everything in the house…from the meals to education, hygiene and general well-being of the kids? On top of that, many are working mothers. So the multi-tasking mummies turn into disciplinarians and naggers to get everyone on the right track. And you know how kids hate to be disciplined and told what to do. It becomes a vicious cycle.

So, poor mummy remains unpopular until the kids grow up and realise how unrewarding a mother's job really is. By then, most mothers have already mellowed with age, or lost that fire in their belly. They would have given up on nagging or simply found no one to nag at (except their poor hubby). Then the kids make a 180 degree turn and appreciate them or even put them on the pedestal.

It’s good to know there’s light at the end of the tunnel. Just remember, mummies mean well. You can't fire them and they can’t quit you know!